{"id":6526,"date":"2021-10-18T20:30:00","date_gmt":"2021-10-18T18:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.psyke.es\/si-no-eres-feliz-aqui-y-ahora-nunca-lo-seras\/"},"modified":"2022-02-11T14:24:56","modified_gmt":"2022-02-11T12:24:56","slug":"si-no-eres-feliz-aqui-y-ahora-nunca-lo-seras","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.psyke.es\/en\/si-no-eres-feliz-aqui-y-ahora-nunca-lo-seras\/","title":{"rendered":"Si no eres feliz aqu\u00ed y ahora, nunca lo ser\u00e1s"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Esta sencilla pero profunda frase del ya fallecido maestro zen japon\u00e9s Taisen Deshimaru, nos lleva a reflexionar: por nuestra idiosincrasia como seres humanos necesitamos desarrollarnos, avanzar en la vida y ser felices. Pero cuando logramos subir un escal\u00f3n, nos solemos olvidar de lo alcanzado y ya estamos pensando en el siguiente. En esta b\u00fasqueda incesante muchas veces no somos capaces de parar, mirar y disfrutar del momento que estamos viviendo. 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Partir de frases como \u201ccuando consiga tal o cual cosa ser\u00e9 feliz\u2026\u201d, o \u201cesto que me ha pasado no me permite ser feliz\u2026\u201d, supone vivir la vida desde las carencias en lugar de vivirla desde las presencias; generando lo que Sharon Salzberg denomina \u201cuna cadena interminable de anhelos\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando sentimos la insatisfacci\u00f3n de expectativas truncadas, hemos de saber soltar las provocaciones mentales y hallar la salida siempre en el instante presente a trav\u00e9s de los cinco sentidos: observar la naturaleza, escuchar los sonidos que desprende, sentir sensaciones t\u00e1ctiles de la temperatura, de la brisa, ser conscientes de los aromas, de los sabores\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Hay una historia de una mujer que huye de los tigres. Corre y corre, pero los tigres cada vez est\u00e1n m\u00e1s cerca de ella. 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